Friday, June 17, 2011

Sometimes I like to fight...


Duke
: They didn't agree on much. In fact they rarely agreed on anything. They fought all the time and they challenged each other everyday...
Young Noah: [Allie and Noah are fighting] Don't push me!
[Allie pushes Noah anyway]
Duke: ...But in spite their differences, they had one important thing in common, they were crazy about each other.

Ok. So honestly I LOVE the notebook, I didn't used to though. It hasn't been until recently that I have figured out why I like it so much. Its because it shows you don't have to fit with someone perfectly in order to love them and live a great life together. You just have to love each other and be willing to make it work. and honestly I LOVE how Noah and Allie fight all the time, because I think it really shows their passion for each other. I want a man. A man who does exactly as he pleases, not to make me happy, but because he wants to. I want a man who will fight with me a little but then 3 minutes later be laughing with me because it really doesn't matter. (Also because I think 3 minutes is the longest I can really stay mad).

Young Noah: When I see something I like, I gotta... I love it.

Also when I see something I want or I like no matter how little trust I have or any of the other details, I jump in with both feet, because I am not going to sit idly by and let my chance of getting what I want pass me by. I get what I want because I go after it with all I have, if I get fail in the end at least I tried.

Duke: It was an improbable romance. He was a country boy. She was from the city. She had the world at her feet, while he didn't have two dimes to rub together.

Once upon a time ago my heart was broken by a boy who said he "didn't think he could provide the life I was accustom to" but that doesn't really matter, all I want is a hard-working man to create a life with.

Sorry for the language in the next bit...but I am not sure how to edit it.

Young Noah: It's not about following your heart and it's not about keeping your promises. It's about security.
Young Allie: What's that supposed to mean?
Young Noah: [yelling] Money. He's got a lot of money!
Young Allie: You smug bastard. I hate you for saying that.
Young Noah: You're bored Allie. You're bored and you know it. You wouldn't be here if there wasn't something missing.
Young Allie: You arrogant son of a bitch.
Young Noah: Would you just stay with me?
Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'
Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Young Allie: So what?
Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
Young Allie: What easy way? There is no easy way, no matter what I do, somebody gets hurt.
Young Noah: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do YOU want? What do you WANT?
Young Allie: It's not that simple.
Young Noah: What... do... you... want? Whaddaya want?
Young Allie: I have to go now.

Staying mad is never something I have been good at. I show my emotions on my face and through the things I say. I don't hide my feelings, for I am almost incapable of doing so. I am not looking for a perfect person, but I would love a man who can communicate like Noah. He says what he wants and goes after what he wants and I love that. He also never gives up. Its really not about wealth, status, or power, its about love. That's all that really matters. Its the little moments in life that add up to the big stuff.

Anyways...random post with random jumbled thoughts. I just might enjoy a summer romance that turned into something deeper. A gentleman who can't get enough of me.
A man who wants me, all of me, FOREVER, him and me, everyday. Stupid romantic movies...


P.S. I also love this song SO much right now! Give Into Me

1 comment:

  1. This is an AWESOME post! Seriously you are like a professional Blogger! You make some amazing points! Josh and I have the gospel and our love for each other in common and that is it! But after being together you gain each others interests. I think I would be very bored if we always did stuff we both liked to do. It's so much better to "sacrifice" my activity to do his and see his face light up, and I love having him teach me about sports or psychology because he gets so excited when I understand it. And it works the other way when we see a play or go to an art exhibit for me! So what I am saying is, you are absolutely right! Find a man who shares your core values and interests and enjoy the adventures that come out of your differences.

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